Wednesday, April 15, 2009

What does this mean? Opinions please?

I%26#039;m in a rather confusing situation. There%26#039;s this guy that i fancy at ballet, and, well, whenever we%26#039;re both in the studio he looks at me quite often, and once, when I was dancing and he was watching, he caught my eye and smiled... but I wasn%26#039;t sure if the smile was directed at me, so I didn%26#039;t return the smile...





He%26#039;s got a female dance partner, and they seem rather close, even when they%26#039;re not partnering in dancing... he was helping her with softening her pointe shoes and like, using this massage thing to massage the back of her thigh..





The other day, the teacher asked him to help her with the students, and i was one of them... she asked him to lift me up, and he was sorta like, smiling, when he saw it was me... ?!? I have no idea...





I don%26#039;t know what to think... It%26#039;s all so confusing!


Am I just making things out to be bigger than they actually are?

What does this mean? Opinions please?
How about just talking with the guy? You can speculate all day long but you won%26#039;t know a thing until you actually talk with him. It doesn%26#039;t have to be a life altering conversation nor do you have to put the fatal %26quot;Do you like me?%26quot; question to him. Just start a conversation about dance, the music, hobbies, whatever and take that where it leads. You%26#039;ll find out soon enough if he wants to continue with additional conversations. If he does, there is interest, if not, well, you know.
Reply:I know the feeling, the fear of rejection; it is very normal. It took me a long time to accept that; we all want to be accepted. When the opportunity comes, smile and say %26quot;Hi%26quot;, nothing more. You can do this! Report It

Reply:try hanging out with a bunch of people from dance.. including him.. outside of dance.. se how he acts then and make a judgement based on that.. or u could just tell him how you feel and see how he reacts
Reply:Chances are he liked you and was seeing how you would respond by smiling at you that time. When you did not return the smile you sent a message that you were not interested. So he just let it drop and is now flirting with another girl and getting close to her. So he did I think liked you, but you seemed to miss the best opportunity when you didn%26#039;t smile back. This is why I say girls should talk to guys if they like them or want to get to know them. Things can get screwed up so easily.
Reply:don%26#039;t get your hopes up too fast! okay...you just gotta wait for a while...he does seem close to his partner...but if he was smiling at you....he might be smiling at he person behind you!





You just gotta wait...watch for clues to see who he likes...find out if he smile at everyone! See what he does... Hope i could help!
Reply:try talking to him and you will see where he is coming from.
Reply:It seems like he likes you, so smile back and be a little bit flirty, but not desperate. See where that goes.
Reply:no sweety. let life live
Reply:Well.He might like you.Watch what he does to other girls.If he does it to the other girls, then he might now like you.But if its mainly you, then he does like you.Though, you really didnt ask a question but this is what i think you were asking.
Reply:It sounds right now like he just a friendly person. You could try flirting a bit, his response will give you some clues as to whether or not that is true.



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