Seeking your opinions on a complicated and confusing situation that I can't decide what to think of?

I%26#039;m in a rather confusing situation. There%26#039;s this guy that i fancy at ballet, and, well, whenever we%26#039;re both in the studio he looks at me quite often, and once, when I was dancing and he was watching, he caught my eye and smiled... but I wasn%26#039;t sure if the smile was directed at me, so I didn%26#039;t return the smile...





He%26#039;s got a female dance partner, and they seem rather close, even when they%26#039;re not partnering in dancing... he was helping her with softening her pointe shoes and like, using this massage thing to massage the back of her thigh..





The other day, the teacher asked him to help her with the students, and i was one of them... she asked him to lift me up, and he was sorta like, smiling, when he saw it was me... ?!? I have no idea...





I don%26#039;t know what to think... It%26#039;s all so confusing!


Am I just making things out to be bigger than they actually are?

Seeking your opinions on a complicated and confusing situation that I can%26#039;t decide what to think of?
Try talking to him! This sounds like a movie set up honestly. Trying to start a conversation with him could clue you into whether he is interested or not.
Reply:If all he has done is smiled at you, I would not take that to be an immediate indication that he likes you. He could just be smiling because he likes what he is doing or maybe he is just a happy guy…. You could try talking to him, if he seems really interested in what you are saying to him, looking at you intently and only glancing away for a half-second, light touches on the hand while talking to you, facing his chest towards you while you are talking. Also look for running his hand through his hair or licking his lips when he notices that you have entered the room. These are usually body language for his interest in you, but they can be deceptive too.





My favorite interest test was the eye-lock; stare at him from across the room and let your eyes lock with his, hold his gaze until he looks away. I%26#039;ve found that the longer they hold that gaze the more interested they are. This is also pretty useful for breaking the ice because most guys can%26#039;t resist coming to you at some point if they are even the slightest bit interested. Unless they are shy, most shy guys can%26#039;t hold a gaze; they usually get embarrassed and drop not only their gaze but their head. If they are interested they will usually glance at you while their head is down.





Be aware that it can be a sure fire notice to this guy that you are interested, if your not careful. If he%26#039;s not interested and isn%26#039;t a nice guy he could yak at his buddies about it which could be embarrassing. %26quot;That girl over there is totally staring at me, what is her problem...%26quot; If he breaks the gaze real quick and he%26#039;s not the shy type do something to cover your butt; fake a sneeze, act like your trying to fix a contact, find an eye lash, or a piece of dirt in your eye, anything to excuse your staring. I’ve even just kept staring, pretending I am day dreaming or something, you can “snap out of it” with a slow blink, then look confused for a split second, and finally move on with your day like nothing happened. Since, the majority of guys tend to make split-second decisions, they usually assume you were daydreaming and forget about the incident.





For the less confident, get a buddy to stand behind the guy being tested, if he flicked off to fast, get a big smile and start walking towards the guy holding the gaze but shifting it to your friend over his shoulder. When they are not interested they usually get spooked and don%26#039;t know what to do so they freeze up and can%26#039;t say anything. (deer in the headlights) When you walk by them to your buddy, they think %26quot;Oh it wasn%26#039;t for me, I must have imagined it%26quot; and forget it. Some of the bolder guys don%26#039;t spook if you do this and could start to say something to their friends about your coming towards him; this usually come with eyes darting about though and you can stop him before it looks bad for you. If you didn%26#039;t catch him before he started to blab at his friends, just yell to your buddy and they look like a moron instead of you. (Do NOT notice what he is saying or doing at all or it leaves doubt in him and the friends about what happened, hold the gaze with your buddy and that big smile.)





I%26#039;ve also found that the buddy technique gives you a second chance to test the guy again, if they get a little smile and their face lights up or their eyes sparkle a bit as you walk towards them they are probably interested, even if they failed the initial eye-lock test. Then if you want you can take the bold approach and initiate conversation and look for the common body signs above. Try something corny to break possible tension from the eye-lock, %26quot;Sorry, your eyes look just like my dogs/cats/fishes,%26quot; or something that would make most folks laugh (don’t use relatives or anyone your potential could eventually meet, it can get a bit embarrassing when the guy notices that his eyes look nothing like theirs.) The joke can also hide the %26quot;test%26quot; so you will be able to walk off without much embarrassment if you decide he (or you) are not interested.





I would say the eye-lock had worked for me around 80% of the time. I could even get information on guys from the eye-lock, like if they are interesting to ME or not. I was actually testing my fiancé%26#039; with the eye-lock when we started dating. I had already seen some of the other signs though. We held gaze for what seemed like hours, I learned enough from that gaze to go bold solo. I knew that he needed someone like me in his life so just I walked up and that was the end of us being single. Almost 8 years later and we have to be careful about catching each others gazes or we get lost. My Mom tells us to stop talking silently a lot. I think she%26#039;s right though; we are constantly glancing at each other and almost reading each others minds... Although I can%26#039;t honestly say how much of that is from us being so alike and together this long or how much of that is some kind of telepathy...
Reply:he%26#039;s definetly diggin you!
Reply:Steer clear of guys like those... He%26#039;s a flirt it seems... but definitely likes u!!! So u can atleast be friends for the time being and find out if he really can be the one!!!



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