How Can I Re-Pay him?

Ok, today after I got home from work, my boyfriend was already home. As I walked in the door, he patted the couch next to him and said that he needed to %26quot;talk to me%26quot;. I got a little nervous, but I sat down by him anyways.





Without saying ANYTHING, he bent down, grabbed my feet, slipped off my shoes, and started massaging my feet. IT WAS AMAZING!!!!





He knows how stressful my job is, and how much time I spend standing around, and just he made me feel all warm and fuzzy inside. =]





After he finished my massage, I leaned forward and gave him a sweet little peck on the lips. Now he said he%26#039;s going to be taking me out to my FAVORITE resturant just because!





I love him so much, and today has showed me just how much he cares for me. =]





Do you guys have any ideas on how I could re-pay him, besides sex?





I%26#039;m already kinda planning on that, but I was looking for something else that he would really appreciate and remember.





Any suggestions?

How Can I Re-Pay him?
I think since he made the night all about you, choose a night to be all about him. What%26#039;s his favorite thing to do? Maybe go to a sports game with him or buy tickets for him and a good friend of his. Go see a movie he wants to see, or a concert he might like, something special that%26#039;s about him.


Good luck. ;]
Reply:good for you.





If I was him? A seductive bj. It means alot more than sex because you%26#039;re doing it all for him.
Reply:that was soo sweet of him he seem sliek a keeper lol, anyway i think u should take his interets into consideration liek wat does he liek doing best or wat are his favorite places to go. there are other choices than having sex to make it a specail maybe u should give him and back massage or somethin well i hope this helps
Reply:Give him some free time to himself and his buddies with no phone calls, no hassles, no curfews, just trust. Or let him have a poker game at your place. Or get him a coupon to a day spa. A guy would NEVER do that, but if he gets a day there and a manicure, I%26#039;ll bet he%26#039;d love it. (He%26#039;d never admit it, though.)





Cook his favorite meal. Let him control the remote.
Reply:My advise: Don%26#039;t keep a scorecard. I mean, don%26#039;t feel compelled to return every good thing he does for you in a quid pro quo manner. I%26#039;ve seen relationships get ruined like that. Opportunities will arise in time and then you do it because you love him not because you%26#039;re paying back for something he did for you.





As your boyfriend has demonstrated through the massage, it%26#039;s the little things that mean the most. So don%26#039;t overthink it.





I know it%26#039;s not very specific but I hope you keep it in mind anyway.
Reply:Repay him by NOT re-paying him. To repay him is to diminish his sweet gift to you.





However, not in the sense of paying him back, take your time and think up something that would be unexpectedly thoughtful and sweet, and do it when it would have the most impact on him.





And most importantly: do it with no thought or expectation that he would ever pay you back: that%26#039;s what makes it a gift.











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Reply:That was very nice of him! I think you could repay him by just laying off all this work. I mean, the reason he is doing all this is to make you happy? Why not lend him a hand by spending more time with him and not working?
Reply:Just showing him how appreciative you are of him. Let him know you love him, and that he rocks your world. Guys that are really in love and care for a girl like to hear they%26#039;re truly loved.
Reply:That%26#039;s absolutely adorable. One way to repay him would be to surprise him by taking him on a whole day date. If both of you work, try the weekend. Plan the whole day and have a ton of fun. You can do things you havent done for a long time, such as going ice skating or sledding. You can do something you%26#039;ve always meant to do, but never found the time and end it with a nice dinner at HIS favorite restaurant. Or you could leave little love notes lying all over the house, where he can find them and smile everytime he sees one. Good luck!
Reply:Wow what a Sweetie-- Return the favor.. Give him a good foot massage or back massage with some lotion or oil.
Reply:Not all guys look for sex. I am guy. You know what I like... my wife uses a back messager on my back. She also scratches it. Buy him some cool concert tickets. i.e. Linkin%26#039; Park, or whatever band he likes. Take him out to eat too. I get so happy when my wife pays for a good meal. Or just cook up some steaks for him. Guys are so simple, just letting them please you is sometimes enough. Hope this helps. :)
Reply:Give him a professionally-produced, framed photo of you both together.
Reply:Answer yes when he ask you to marry him tonight at the restaurant CONGRATS!!!!
Reply:A thank you n i love you card. N then go do something that he enjoys that you dont really like jus to show him how much it ment to you.
Reply:Yes ..More sex


But...... the way he likes it.


Make it about him ..Not you
Reply:sex
Reply:I%26#039;ve always believed that the best relationships are when both people truly live to serve the other. Not in a slave sense, but out of love.





My advice to repay him would be to do something similar. Suprise him with something he always wanted, or a fun night doing what he loves to do. Spontenaeity is key, but always think of the other. He clearly does for you :)
Reply:SURPRISE HIM WITH SOMETHING JUST AS ADORABLE
Reply:I do not know what kind of job he has or whatever but you could always surprise him just as he did you.





Another thing...why my guy does something special like that for me...I like to go out and get one of those really sweet I love you cards and give him...I either give it directly to him or put it on his pillow or something.





Sounds like you have a wonderful relationship!
Reply:Take it for wat it is. He luvs u. if u really wanted to re-pay him. find anutha job that%26#039;s not impacting the relationship. read the signs...the next couch experience might not be so pleasant. ur forgeting about him. sex is not all men want. he knew wat simply thing makes u happy but u dont kno wat simply thing makes him happy. he%26#039;s trying, hard. open ur eyes
Reply:Well do something for him that he likes and appreciates like I don%26#039;t know, cook something he likes or surprise him with something he always wanted or try to reduce his stress when he is tired like you.Think something sweet but take your time and do not hurry cuz it may look you are kinda trying to do it because he did something. btw he may be planning to ask you marry him too cuz he is being so sweet and wants to take to the resturant ;)


Good Luck


Hope this helped


~s@m



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