Wednesday, April 15, 2009

Complicated... confused... seeking your opinions..?

I%26#039;m in a rather confusing situation. There%26#039;s this guy that i fancy at ballet, and, well, whenever we%26#039;re both in the studio he looks at me quite often, and once, when I was dancing and he was watching, he caught my eye and smiled... but I wasn%26#039;t sure if the smile was directed at me, so I didn%26#039;t return the smile...





He%26#039;s got a female dance partner, and they seem rather close, even when they%26#039;re not partnering in dancing... he was helping her with softening her pointe shoes and like, using this massage thing to massage the back of her thigh..





The other day, the teacher asked him to help her with the students, and i was one of them... she asked him to lift me up, and he was sorta like, smiling, when he saw it was me... ?!? I have no idea...





I don%26#039;t know what to think... It%26#039;s all so confusing!


Am I just making things out to be bigger than they actually are?

Complicated... confused... seeking your opinions..?
You need to talk to him outside of class and casually find out if he%26#039;s dating the other girl. Say something like, %26quot;How long have you and so and so been dating%26quot; If he says he isn%26#039;t then say, %26quot;Oh, are you two just friends?%26quot; If he says yes, then talk some more about nonsense like the weather and ballet and stuff and then towards the end of the conversation, give him your phone number and tell him to call you because you would like to get together with him for lunch or something.
Reply:Hey girl, I guess your very attracted to this guy/gay. Maybe he%26#039;s looking at you because he is either jealous of your clothes, your body or your looks or he likes you too. What you feel might be real.Just be more attentive to the lessons and not to the guy alone okay? If he%26#039;s interested in you, he%26#039;s gonna be the the one who%26#039;s gonna ask you out. Don%26#039;t be too aggressive.
Reply:if i were you, i%26#039;d leave things as it is and not think anything first. it can be very disappointing if the opposite happens you know. and us girls, we%26#039;re just too sensitive to take certain things! but what i can see is that he might have taken a fancy to you. but play cool. that way you%26#039;ll attract him more.
Reply:u tell me.. what do YOU think is right??and uh he massaged his partner%26#039;s thigh?? uhh... interesting.. but of course, is he older? if so... GO FOR HIM!!!
Reply:Well one day ask him to help you do something and then strike up a conversation, sometime we have to act stupid in order to make them realize!
Reply:hey if you fancy him then tell him and see what his responds is . He will either give u the right answer ur looking for or tell u the truth and that he is seeing some one now. It can%26#039;t get any worst than that right so confront him and go from there. You could start by saying that YOU noticed him looking and smiling at u and that will start the conversation off ok.



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