Need Relationship Advice!!!!?

Ok, well my boyfriend and I have been together for 5 1/2 years. We%26#039;re both 21 now. We are planning on moving into the home that he bought last summer and it seems like for the past month, we%26#039;ve been on hiatus. Now I know us women tend to think we do nothing wrong and I%26#039;m not saying that I%26#039;m an angel but I think I%26#039;m pretty easy to get along with. After almost 6 years together, the fire is still there and I find myself doing corny, little things for him still. He worked the other night and once he came home, I took his shoes off and gave him a massage and gave him oral sex. I don%26#039;t know if there%26#039;s something wrong with him though. it seems like the past two or three months he%26#039;s just been so ignorant to me and blaming me for EVERYTHING! The remote was about a foot away from him last night and he made a big stink about how I put it there and was wrong because I didn%26#039;t grab it when I sat closer to him. I need help bad! Does he still love me? What can I do to keep this going? I love him.

Need Relationship Advice!!!!?
go stay at your moms or a friends tell him you need time to think and consider if we should be together because you treat me like crap. come back in a few days and have a talk with him, if he isnt willing to change then end it. its not going to work if he isnt willing to compromise.
Reply:Ask him if anything if wrong. He may be under alot of stress at work. If he gets mad at you just say sorry and dont get made at him.
Reply:Possibly nothing. He may simply be tiring of you. If this has been going on for two or three months I would look for something else going on. Not sure I%26#039;d be planning on moving in either.
Reply:Talk to him.


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Reply:The truth is, his love might be dying. I know this sounds horrible but I%26#039;ve witnessed it several times. I obviously dont know you%26#039;re whole situation so I%26#039;m not going to make a statement but maybe you should start thinking about how things used to be and how he%26#039;s treating you now. Does it seem like he is constantly fed up with you? Is he blaming you for stupid things? He might be one of those guys that has just gotten burnt out of the relationship. He definetly cares for you because otherwise he wouldn%26#039;t have been with you for 6 years, but might just be going through a crisis.
Reply:Working at relationships can be hard, and every couple has rough patches/disputes. What makes a successful couple however, is how they deal with them. You both need to communicate from time to time, talk about how you both feel, what%26#039;s bothering you, what you can do to make the other person happy or the relationship work better etc. Moving in together is a big test to see how ready you both are to be together properly.





So, ask him if there%26#039;s anything bothering him (stresses at work, with his family or other people), say that the way he%26#039;s starting to treat at you is getting to you. If he truely respects and loves you, he%26#039;ll listen to what you%26#039;ve got to say.





You can only make a relationship really work if you communicate.



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