Wednesday, April 15, 2009

What do you think?

Do you guys think that a woman who likes having her feet massaged is weird?





I love the idea of coming home from work, kicking off my shoes, and having my loving boyfriend come over and massage my socked feet. =]





Is this a normal desire, or am I losing my marbles?

What do you think?
ha ha girl i love having my feet messaged with no socks an some lotion oh how great it is, i go to get pedicures, an go to the do this chianeese special foot rub, as a matter of fact i got one earlier an it was sooooo relaxing!!! wish i had a man to do it everyday lol therefore i can save my money lol!!!
Reply:Everyman will be different, so I guess every relationshipw ill be different.... So I think your man may think it%26#039;s sexy for chicks to have their feet massaged
Reply:no its not weird i mean like ur feet hurt so bad u want them massaged. ilove having my feet massaged.
Reply:I think it%26#039;s normal. I like a girl who enjoys walking around in socked feet, and I%26#039;m usually eager to give massages. :)
Reply:yeah its normal
Reply:No it is not weird, it is perfectly normal. I love having my feet massaged and no one sees me as weird.





I too love coming home from work and putting my bare feet up and having my fiance` come and massage them of his own free will, I do not even need to ask.





There is little else more relaxing than having a foot massage. But I would recommend a barefoot massage, it feels better.
Reply:Could be a foot fetis, or you just like to be pampered. In any case it is normal.
Reply:i think its normal. but i hate feet so if ur man does it hes a keeper lol
Reply:Not weird at all my girlfriend wants me to do that all the time
Reply:no that%26#039;s not strangew, it%26#039;s a ******** sexy intimate thing.....and lucky you if you can find a guy that will do it.....but just be sure and return the favor......i always massage the feet of anyone i%26#039;m with and it really turns most of them on......as well as feeling soooo yummy......nothing like coming home from work and stretching out on the couch and propping your feet in my lap and getting a good foot rub.....and alot of times it%26#039;s nice to do each other at the same time.......hehehehehehe....and it%26#039;s not hard to start rubbing up the legs from there and we know what that leads to don%26#039;t we?.....as long as they%26#039;re clean anyway......i can%26#039;t do it to someone who has dirty feet, but if they take care of themselves it%26#039;s a wonderful thing......
Reply:I love giving my wife massages, be it foot or otherwise. I like being able to help her relax and enjoy a brief respite from the day. Absolutely nothing wrong with it. Definitely promotes togetherness and provides some quality shared time.



FISH

What Do You Think?

Do you guys think that a woman who likes having her feet massaged is weird?





I love the idea of coming home from work, kicking off my shoes, and having my loving boyfriend come over and massage my feet.





Is this a normal desire, or am I losing my marbles?

What Do You Think?
Everyone Likes a foot massage. It doesn%26#039;t matter if you are male or female. The question is do you find it erotic? If so Freud would say you have an oedipus complex and are in love with your mother.
Reply:Woman are you crazy? Whats wrong with that? Personally i wish i could have my feet rubbed everytime i came home from work. Theres nothing wrong withthat and whoever told u that it was wierd has issues. Ciao.
Reply:It%26#039;s normal. Although %26quot;normal%26quot; is subjective.





Find a guy who will do it everyday. Some will not. Some will love it.





And if you really feel weird about it, just get a foot massager at Brookstone or something.
Reply:That is completely normal.....I like giving my girlfriend a foot massages because she walks all day at work
Reply:This is wonderful. I love it. I mean I love doing it. Massaging feet is a wonderful thing. It not only does its job of relaxing muscles but also brings people closer temperamentally and strengthens understanding and binds together.
Reply:yes.
Reply:Why would this be considered weird, who wouldn%26#039;t want their feet massaged.
Reply:your marbles have left the building
Reply:if you like your feet touch then it%26#039;s fine but not good for me i hate my feet touched. if your man likes to do it then it%26#039;s fine. my b/f likes to but i yell at him i tell him i have other body parts he can rub on
Reply:It is cool! I would love to have my feet massaged more often but unfotunately I have this terrible smelling feet problem... so hardly any guy would want to touch my stinkers.
Reply:losing your marble : \......srry %26quot;-_-



selling

Would you like to have a personal maid at your wedding?

I think family and friends (bridal party) tend to stress our the bride. I would love to have a personal maid pamper me and wait on me hand and foot the day of the wedding. I think it adds to the whole princess idea. For me I would use a maid to fetch me drinks, help me dress, paint my nails, give me relaxing massages and help me with my shoes.





What do you think? What would you do if you had someone like this?

Would you like to have a personal maid at your wedding?
If she was cuter than the bride, I%26#039;d probably do her.





Seriously though, are you filthy rich? Aren%26#039;t your parents going to pay an arm and a leg for the wedding anyway?





If you want that kind of service, tell one of your friends not to buy anything for you and just volunteer to be your ***** for the day instead.
Reply:I would rather have a butler, sort of like a male dancer, doing my will at my wedding.. especially painting my toes and giving me some massages ....
Reply:What do you think? What would you do if you had someone like this????????... That is your Question???.. Well if i was him i would RUN, very Bizarre to Me!
Reply:I wouldn%26#039;t want a stranger in the way of me interacting with my friends and family. It seems very impersonal. If you have good friends and family, they will take care of all of these needs for you, and with lots of love.
Reply:Methinks that%26#039;s what the Maid of Honor and bridesmaids are for. That%26#039;s what I did as Maid of Honor and that%26#039;s what I had my bridesmaids do for me when the time came. As far as family and friends stressing out the bride, nope. She did it to herself by wanting such a big huge wedding. Notice grooms never seem to need such help. They are old enough to dress themselves:) Not to mention brides that need that much attention are very high maintenance, vain, and materialistic. Grooms should run from women like that.
Reply:no



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Do I have a job? What do you think?

I am a mom, maid, personal shopper of 5, housekeeper (laundry included), tailor, chauffer, personal planner, babysitter, pet sitter, pet groomer,secretary, girl friday, barber, pool girl ,lifeguard, plumber, lawn care technician, landscaper, cook, nutritionist, nurse, doctor, clinical psychologist, motivational speaker, educational advisor, tutor, karate coach, geriatric consultant, spiritual leader, carpenter, photographer, computer consultant, carpet cleaner, dental assistant, tooth fairy, handmaid, botanist, mechanic, painter, interior designer, answering service, telephone directory assistant, massage therapist, closet organizer, detective, cobbler (shoe repair), gofer, taste tester to name a few! Here%26#039;s cheers to YOU MOMS who do it all! God bless ya!

Do I have a job? What do you think?
I hear you. It would be nice if we started getting paid in more than dirty laundry, torn clothes, wild kids, pets that pee on the carpet, and grumpy husbands!
Reply:Great Question!





No, you don%26#039;t have a %26quot;job%26quot;, but you do have an occupation. It is called Mother. And it is the hardest %26quot;job%26quot; out there, one which many people take for granted, others just don%26#039;t understand, and still others refuse to even respect. I too say CHEERS to YOU MOMS who do it all. We do it for the right reasons and we are strong because we don%26#039;t let the naysayers question our motives, our choices, or our futures.





Hugs, mamas!!
Reply:You have a job. What sucks is you work all day. You don%26#039;t get any time off. Nobody ever tells you what a good job you are doing, and you don%26#039;t even get paid. I solute you and all the other moms out there.
Reply:Yeah, we all do that, plus many of us work too!!
Reply:do you make any money ? if not you have a life style
Reply:Conratz! You can do it all
Reply:remember, YOU signed on for it, so you don%26#039;t deserve a pat on the back for it
Reply:wow. u are a volunteer
Reply:i do all that, and have 2 part time jobs
Reply:check this link its good








http://workathomefreelancingdataentrywor...





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Reply:WoW.
Reply:you sound like you are some sort of princess you probably don%26#039;t need a job
Reply:Yep. I have the same one as you. You have your H.D.E. Master%26#039;s Degree which you can proudly put after your name. Your official title is______(your name), H.D.E.





Household, Domestic, Engineer.
Reply:lol : )~


Thanks you brightened my day and at the same time made me realize I need a raise!!



flower

Would you like to have a personal maid at your wedding?

I think family and friends (bridal party) tend to stress our the bride. I would love to have a personal maid pamper me and wait on me hand and foot the day of the wedding. I think it adds to the whole princess idea. For me I would use a maid to fetch me drinks, help me dress, paint my nails, give me relaxing massages and help me with my shoes.





What do you think? What would you do if you had someone like this?

Would you like to have a personal maid at your wedding?
Yeah!


MY MOM!!!!
Reply:You would really be losing a lot of the wedding day fun without your friends and family helping you to get ready.
Reply:No, it%26#039;s a stupid idea. Choose another line of work.
Reply:No I would not like it. Thats why you have a bridal party. Also, you dont have tons of time to get massages, etc. the day of the wedding. Its better to do that a day or two before the wedding.
Reply:it%26#039;s your wedding day, not a princess party. you%26#039;re bridal party is supposed to help you with all that stuff anyway.
Reply:I love the idea but maybe more for a Bridal Shower or Bachlorette party instead.
Reply:Thats part of what the bridal party does, they help you get ready.





Personally I would send them to clean my house instead. I dont want strangers seeing me change and it would make me uncomfortable constantly ordering someone around like that and tying my shoes like I was 5.





If your bridal party is stressing you out you need to rethink your choice of bridesmaids. I love being around my two girls so definately no stress there.
Reply:Personally, I would have liked this idea. I didn´t like asking for help, and never have, and if I would have hired someone, I would have felt more comfortable. My sister ended up going to McDonald´s for everyone, and I felt bad. The other sister didn´t show up to help until the limo showed up. After the wedding, I heard one of my sisters say that she was %26quot;over it%26quot; meaning she had enough of doing things for the bride, and it really hurt at the time, although I can see why she didn´t like it.


When I look at pictures, there was something wrong with the positioning at the back of my dress-it was completely wrong after the limo ride, so if you are thinking about offering this service, be there for brides before they walk down the aisle, since no one bothered to check the back of me.
Reply:It%26#039;s sounds like a fun idea, but I would really feel sorry for the maid.
Reply:That would be cutting out all the fun. You should be pampered with all the girls sometime before the wedding. Have a girls day out. Your bridesmaids are to there to help you dress on the big day. :)




buying

Women Only!!!?

I love women%26#039;s feet and I love to massage, paint, smell, kiss and Hug women%26#039;s feet. Everywhere I go I want to massage women%26#039;s feet. I also love women%26#039;s shoes. What can I do?

Women Only!!!?
Work at a women%26#039;s shoe store or become a pedicurist
Reply:thats just weird.
Reply:no comment
Reply:come on over baby!!!!! LOL I could use a good foot rub!!!!
Reply:I wish my partner was in to that! I love getting my feet massaged and tickled. I%26#039;d also love it if he was into women%26#039;s shoes. Especially if he bought me shoes to wear around him. And if he painted my toe nails as well? Sounds great to me!!!! If you are single maybe you should just get a girlfriend that loves receiving what you love doing. Good luck!
Reply:well get a girlfriend for one..because just walking up to someone and asking them if you can touch their feet is just wrong...lol





if you get a girlfriend then you can play with her feet all you want
Reply:You could go to cosmetology or nail tech shool and become a licensed pedicurist! Why not do something you LOVE and make money at the same time! I would NOT recommend kissing your clients%26#039; feet. That could end up in a huge lawsuit!
Reply:I think that you should find someone that love there feet and want to take care of her feet. Or find someone that dont mind it.
Reply:no life...
Reply:Nasty
Reply:Get therapy
Reply:find a woman who likes all that done to her feet.
Reply:pray 2 god u dont get a women with smelly hairy feet lol
Reply:Get a job as a shoe salesman and moonlight in a Nail Care place giving pedicures or better yet open your own place and specialize in taking care of women%26#039;s feet.
Reply:become a padiatrist
Reply:be a musoose they make big bucks or get a gf
Reply:Sell shoes.
Reply:Collect toe-jams and knit a ski mask.
Reply:I love your feet
Reply:Find a woman who will let you do that to them and marry them. They are out there. Good luck!
Reply:I have soft %26amp; pretty feet. And my toenails are always polished. You%26#039;d sure have fun. And I love massages of any kind.
Reply:get a gf and massage her feet
Reply:Get a job or go to collage if you did.. For massaging feet.


best of luck


♥HAVE A GREAT DAY ♥
Reply:You have a foot fetish. Just get yourself a girlfriend that is understanding of this. Then again, what woman wouldn%26#039;t love getting a foot rub and a pedi?





If you got it real bad, you could always work at a shoe store or in a nail salon?





Good luck!
Reply:What can you do but accept it?? Girl love it when guys treat them good, so massage your gf%26#039;s feet!! =)
Reply:Buy yourself a maniqui and you will have those feet everyday for you to lick, hug massage and even sleep with them.
Reply:Go to a support group for people w/ feet fetishes, and get nasty w/ someone.



tanning

K so this girl doesnt like me and knows that i like this guy...read on?

K so I%26#039;m 14 and in 9th grade and I like this guy. We%26#039;re kinda friends.





So theres this girl at my school and shes more popular than me and stuff and already has a boyfriend. We used to be like best friends but something happened and now she hates me (dont wanna talk about it)





So She found out I like this guy, and friday was %26quot;dress for success%26quot; day were we dress up and stuff and do mock job interviews. We were all done and waiting in an empty classroom and she asked the friend of the guy I like to massage her foot cuz they hurt from her shoes and then asked him to get the guy I like to do the other one.





Is she trying to get at me or is she just a big flirt, or does she really like him?





I know kinda confusing but any answers?

K so this girl doesnt like me and knows that i like this guy...read on?
shes being a big flirt to try and get to you, if she has a boyfriend i wouldn%26#039;t worry about it, but if i were you id try and talk to her boyfriend..while shes watching
Reply:she%26#039;s damn mean..,.u were her friend... its ok... so tell ur bf u like him as soon as possible coz it shount be too late... and tell him that what this female really intends... love him if he%26#039;s worth it... u re just 14
Reply:She%26#039;s prolly getting back @ u.


Drama time.


watch out.
Reply:u can%26#039;t know if she likes u if u didnt ask her


plz help


http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...
Reply:She likes attention and she probably wanted to get at you. Sounds inappropriate to me, as you all were doing interviews.
Reply:i%26#039;ve been through thos she%26#039;s most likely trying to to get at you
Reply:she is prob just a big flirt and since she knows you like him, and doesnt like you, is turning the flirting up a level. dont let her get to you. girls do bit.chy things like this all the time. shes just trying to get under your skin.
Reply:shes a ****
Reply:probably both...





if she keeps on doing it, get 7 of your friends, and video tape you guys beating her up..





JUST KIDDING
Reply:in my opinion, she%26#039;s trying her hardest to get what you want away from you. id say just fight back
Reply:Concentrate on your studies



flower

Could pins in my foot move 2 yrs aft. surgery and cause pain? Has anyone had this happen or seen this.?

I had surgery in 2004 and had pins placed in the 5th metarsal (sp) right at the joint midfoot. No problems since. About a week ago I was laying down and just moved my foot as to strech. I felt what seemed like a %26quot;catch%26quot; in that area and it was painful. Today I had a pedicure and noticed it was VERY tender in that area now. No pain when walking or wearing shoes. Just when it was massaged. It looks like there might be a little swelling at one end of the scar where its tender/sore.

Could pins in my foot move 2 yrs aft. surgery and cause pain? Has anyone had this happen or seen this.?
i know 2 people who have had this trouble.my husband had his done 12 years ago and it hurt so they xrayd and the bone had moved he had to get the metal bits sawed off.no probs now.my friend was 5 years ago but always had large lump that rubbed and hurt she also had hers fixed.you should ask for xray.good luck.



tanning

Any women out there want to join a new harem that I am starting for myself?

You will get the following privileges:





1. You might get picked to stay the night with me at least once a week (You have to act like it’s what you live for when around me)





2. You get three meals a day as long as you work with the other ladies to cook it.





3. You get your own room and bathroom.





4. You get to live in a mansion on 10 archers’ with a pool and spa





5. You get to pick out a car of your choice as long as it’s not more than 50K





6. You get $1000.00 a week to spend as you please, with one exception: You have to spend at least 25% of your income on clothes, shoes, beauty treatments, lingerie and massages.





Would you like to join?

Any women out there want to join a new harem that I am starting for myself?
lol like how 23456 sound but not one sorry
Reply:Go buy yourself a dog.
Reply:You%26#039;d be doing good to get me to say %26quot;Hello%26quot; to you....


Sounds like you need to find yourself a pimp....
Reply:whats a harem?
Reply:YUP .


WELL, DEPENDS ON WHERE IT IS.





WHATS THE MEDICAL AND VACATION PLAN LIKE?





IM VERY POOR VERY OLD AND ILL NEVER ASK TO %26quot;GET LUCKY.%26quot;





ACTUALLY, THATS THE DAY I QUIT.
Reply:There%26#039;s a whole bunch of women who would be willing but they are all inflatable.


Hope you have a hand pump.
Reply:**** U LADY



sweating

Could pins in my foot move 2 yrs aft. surgery and cause pain? Has anyone had this happen or seen this.?

I had surgery in 2004 and had pins placed in the 5th metarsal (sp) right at the joint midfoot. No problems since. About a week ago I was laying down and just moved my foot as to strech. I felt what seemed like a %26quot;catch%26quot; in that area and it was painful. Today I had a pedicure and noticed it was VERY tender in that area now. No pain when walking or wearing shoes. Just when it was massaged. It looks like there might be a little swelling at one end of the scar where its tender/sore.

Could pins in my foot move 2 yrs aft. surgery and cause pain? Has anyone had this happen or seen this.?
I have never had pins in my foot, but I have had them in my ankle and I think usually the process is to remove them before they have been in there for 2 years. Before too long after healing, with pins still in place, arthritis begins to set in around the pins and causes pain such as what you are describing. You should talk to your surgeon and see if you should have them removed. You might feel better and get rid of the possibility of any more arthritis threats. Hope you feel better soon!



maintenance repairs

How to date a girl when you have a foot fetish?

i have a foot fetish that i deseratly wish i could quit. i don%26#039;t want to bring it into this new relationship i am starting. i still see my ex wife and clean all her shoes and still mell her feet and massage them. and smell her socks. i want to quit it all together anyone have any good advice.

How to date a girl when you have a foot fetish?
Find a girl who appreciates this and share the fun. Fetishes are great when both people have a good time together. I bet there is some girl out there who would love it if you massaged her feet or maybe she would like to massage yours too. Don%26#039;t be ashamed. You are not hurting anyone.
Reply:Fetishes are GREAT! Embrace them as long as you are being safe and don%26#039;t hurt anyone, it is perfectly natural. It%26#039;s all Freudian- everything in our life deals with sex but not always in a sexual way.





Find someone who is comfortable with who you are and accepts you. The only problem I can see here is that you are maintaining an unhealthy attachment to your ex. Move on. There are many lovely feet in this world just waiting to be adored. (Hopefully they are attached to lovely women.)





You can%26#039;t change who you are. You can only better your situation. Be upfront with ladies that you meet. I personally know a few women that really like toes... there are more out there than you think. So EMBRACE it. You are not weird. Just unique. Good luck on finding a beautiful set of feet attached to an even more accepting woman.
Reply:I have a perfect game plan to help you get rid of this foot fetish.





1) Given me your mailing address


2) I will send you my unwashed socks each worn for 1 week


4) avoid food for the day


5) Go ahead and smell all you want


6) After you had throw up a few times, washed the socks


7) Return them to me and I will send you the next batch


8) Repeat your fetish until you had enough of my socks smell





Its a win-win plan.


You rid yourself of the fetish and I get my socks washed for free.
Reply:um wow.


Just try avoiding it.


You%26#039;re not the only one with this problem.


But try substituting it for another thing and focus on something else on the body.


Like the lips or hips.


Or you could be like every other guy and go for the *** or other areas but you don%26#039;t seem like that type of guy so yeah.


Try doing that.


And if you can%26#039;t get over it find someone who can accept you for your fetish and all.
Reply:I dont think you can get over it, I actually love guys with a foot fetish because who doesn%26#039;t like their feet rubbed and kissed. Its not a bad thing, find a girl who%26#039;ll appreciate it, it%26#039;s not hard.
Reply:There are so many other parts of the body to become obsessed with - find one or two you like and go crazy!
Reply:r u 4 real;. try focusing on another part of the body. i would be offended if all a guy adored on me was my foot. hello!!! mayb her hair belly button.
Reply:Cut off her feet?



aircraft

Women Only!!!?

My friends came over to copy DVD%26#039;s. They are both girls and I look down at their shoe and I wanted to massage it but I couldn%26#039;t. So I keep looking at the one who had no socks so she can show her toenails. I asked her if I can look at your toenails she said no!!!. I asked her can I massage your toenails she said no!!!. Then I go to the other girl and I told her if she needed a foot massage and she didn%26#039;t say anyhing. I went and massage her toenail she got mad at me. Everytime they come I want to massage their toenails


What Should I do?

Women Only!!!?
You are a foot fetish just like I am a shoe fetish. I understand because when a woman takes care of herself then she is more attractive. Some men are attracted to breasts but you to woman feet. Dont be ashamed. You should get a girl friend or a woman friend who wears alot of high shoes and then offer her a foot massage and believe me she wont refuse. Words of caution::: Dont be freaky when you ask to do it and when you busy just control it!!!!
Reply:you have a foot fetish lose it or find and another girl who likes it .
Reply:Go get a job at Payless.
Reply:you have a foot fetish...


be careful, athletes foot could get on your hands and make your genitals fall off! ;)
Reply:Lose the toenail fetish
Reply:Tell them not to take off their shoes. Come on you must have a problem with toenails. Or tell them to take off the paint. GET AHOLD OF YOURSELF MAN!!!! that is also a little weird.
Reply:Yeah you need to control your fetish and it makes your friends uncomfortable.
Reply:Get a job doing pedicures. Then the women won%26#039;t mind you massaging their toes and feet.
Reply:Stop messing with your friends feet. They don%26#039;t like it.


The foot fetish is your thing go find someone who is into that sort of thing and leave their feet alone. lol


Strange never understood the foot fetish thing. I think all feet are ugly but, i guess to each his own.
Reply:Sounds like you have a foot fetish. You need to find a girlfriend who has the same interest as you.


They have websites out there that let you meet ppl with foot fetishes. I don%26#039;t know any personally, but good luck hunting.
Reply:toenail fetish... never heard of that one... hmm good luck w/ it.. i would let you do that massage my toenail.. i haven%26#039;t a problem w/ it.
Reply:Dude, GET A HOLD ON YOURSELF. WHY WOULD YOU LIKE TO GO ON MASSAGING OTHER WOMEN%26#039;S TOENAILS. IT%26#039;S LIKE YOUR A FREAK OR SOMETHING. BELIEVE ME SHE MIGHT SLAP YOU HE OTHER TIME IF YOU ASK HER THE SAME THING OR DO IT WITHOUT ASKING.
Reply:well i have a site at advice4u_24@yahoo.com and u can email me with that problem and other problems thankyou!! plz send us ur problems!! we can help
Reply:Well, first, I think that you have to lose the toenail fetish. It%26#039;s kinda weird and freaky.
Reply:Hey either get over your toenail thing or find someone who likes it.



sweating

Any girl in Delhi wants a decent , young foot-servant for free?

it means i will do everything u order and i will never disobey u


and if u command i will be ready to massage ur feet


and even kiss ur shoes to show my loyalty.

Any girl in Delhi wants a decent , young foot-servant for free?
what is wrong with you?
Reply:worship the foot
Reply:You Are Hilarious! I hope you find that someone! Make sure she%26#039;ll appreciate you first!
Reply:You need to get a hobby.
Reply:lol



military loans

Need Relationship Advice!!!!?

Ok, well my boyfriend and I have been together for 5 1/2 years. We%26#039;re both 21 now. We are planning on moving into the home that he bought last summer and it seems like for the past month, we%26#039;ve been on hiatus. Now I know us women tend to think we do nothing wrong and I%26#039;m not saying that I%26#039;m an angel but I think I%26#039;m pretty easy to get along with. After almost 6 years together, the fire is still there and I find myself doing corny, little things for him still. He worked the other night and once he came home, I took his shoes off and gave him a massage and gave him oral sex. I don%26#039;t know if there%26#039;s something wrong with him though. it seems like the past two or three months he%26#039;s just been so ignorant to me and blaming me for EVERYTHING! The remote was about a foot away from him last night and he made a big stink about how I put it there and was wrong because I didn%26#039;t grab it when I sat closer to him. I need help bad! Does he still love me? What can I do to keep this going? I love him.

Need Relationship Advice!!!!?
go stay at your moms or a friends tell him you need time to think and consider if we should be together because you treat me like crap. come back in a few days and have a talk with him, if he isnt willing to change then end it. its not going to work if he isnt willing to compromise.
Reply:Ask him if anything if wrong. He may be under alot of stress at work. If he gets mad at you just say sorry and dont get made at him.
Reply:Possibly nothing. He may simply be tiring of you. If this has been going on for two or three months I would look for something else going on. Not sure I%26#039;d be planning on moving in either.
Reply:Talk to him.


x
Reply:The truth is, his love might be dying. I know this sounds horrible but I%26#039;ve witnessed it several times. I obviously dont know you%26#039;re whole situation so I%26#039;m not going to make a statement but maybe you should start thinking about how things used to be and how he%26#039;s treating you now. Does it seem like he is constantly fed up with you? Is he blaming you for stupid things? He might be one of those guys that has just gotten burnt out of the relationship. He definetly cares for you because otherwise he wouldn%26#039;t have been with you for 6 years, but might just be going through a crisis.
Reply:Working at relationships can be hard, and every couple has rough patches/disputes. What makes a successful couple however, is how they deal with them. You both need to communicate from time to time, talk about how you both feel, what%26#039;s bothering you, what you can do to make the other person happy or the relationship work better etc. Moving in together is a big test to see how ready you both are to be together properly.





So, ask him if there%26#039;s anything bothering him (stresses at work, with his family or other people), say that the way he%26#039;s starting to treat at you is getting to you. If he truely respects and loves you, he%26#039;ll listen to what you%26#039;ve got to say.





You can only make a relationship really work if you communicate.



visual arts uk

Does she like me?

So, I was playing twister with some amputees. Then, a right hand red was spun and everybody got out. During a girl opened my garage door with a bottle of goat%26#039;s milk. The goat did not like that. Anyway, she poured goat%26#039;s milk down my shirt. It was cold. Then, she took off my shirt and licked all the goat%26#039;s milk off my shirt. Then she kneeled down like she was going to give me oral sex, but took my shoes off and gave me a massage. Then she left and closed the garage door and killed the goat. Does she like me?

Does she like me?
Killed the goat, where the hell do you live?
Reply:AMPUTEE TWISTER IS BAD ***, I PLAY I EVERY WEDNESDAY.
Reply:I think she likes you.
Reply:Nope. Otherwise she would%26#039;ve %26quot;milked%26quot; you.
Reply:i guess thats creepy i would do that to freak someone out not to show them that i like them but thats just me
Reply:I am scared, is that your imagination working up?


if not, then yes, but I would stay away from her.



sweating

My first walking Marathon !?

I%26#039;m in 40%26#039;s and this will be my first walking Marathon. I exercise power walk at least one hour a day. I eat healthy and drink only water I feel I can handle it. I have good running shoes. I plan to have a massage after the walk. Any other advice. Thank-You

My first walking Marathon !?
Build up to it, maybe find a half marathon distance you can practice in. Maybe consider joining a training group, like Team in Training or a local social club. Walking marathons is very popular, you could find others to do it with you, bounce ideas off, etc.
Reply:A few high-level recommendations since I%26#039;m not sure what your training was:





-a couple of weeks before your marathon go into taper mode which means no more weights at the gym and reduce the intensity of your walks


-u mentioned you only drink water during your walks, trying drinking an electrolyte drink and eating during your walks (gels, pretzels, gummy bears, etc..)


-have some pasta the night before


-as for your clothes hopefully you are not wearing any cotton clothes as it will chafe and produce blisters





That%26#039;s all for now but contact me for any more specific questions.



loan

Ladies what would u rather have?

me shining your shoes or boots?


or a foot massage?

Ladies what would u rather have?
actually i would love a foot massage but knowing that you like anything that has to do with shoes,i would put you to shine my boots~
Reply:Foot massage! I%26#039;ll get someone else to do the shoe shining.
Reply:foot massage
Reply:I don%26#039;t like massages and I live in thongs so I will have to pass. Sorry.
Reply:A nice foot massage is nice but i%26#039;m so ticklish regarding my feet, so you would have to do it slowly and firmly.
Reply:I like my toes sucked, are you willing?
Reply:lol Neither


I%26#039;m picky about who touches my feet lol
Reply:a foot massage...no doubt
Reply:Foot Massage
Reply:My boots--spit please--and then let me lick your manhood
Reply:FOOT MASSAGE! tennies dont need shined anyhow
Reply:foot massage...
Reply:since when did you get to make the rules?
Reply:Massage,massage,massage!!
Reply:A foot massage would be heavenly!
Reply:This is a trick question b/c I know if I say a foot massage that I still won%26#039;t get one!;)
Reply:A foot massage --
Reply:have to be foot massage i%26#039;ve got no shoes on and it lasts longer
Reply:A foot massage, right now please. No tickling.



leather handbag

What does this wierd email mean?

okay well some guy who ive never talked to in my life sent me an email..(below)...I checked his profile to see if i answered any of his questions and he hasn%26#039;t asked any and he hasn%26#039;t answered any of mine so i don%26#039;t know why he chose to send this to me put here it is....








Message: Hey I am a real cute guy looking to make some new female frinds for summer that would not mind a guy to lay at your feet like a doormat and get your feet done.





I would basically lay there for you to step and walk over my stomach when you want and stand on it and press your feet down and get them massaged and cleaned and your shoes put on whenever you want to go out. When I am done putting your shoes on you can jsut step down and walk away.





What do you think?





--------------------------------------...





Okay that is so weird!!! WHAT DOES IT MEAN!!!????!!!!???

What does this wierd email mean?
WTF?? Obviously block him, or delete him or SOMETHING. There is obviously something wrong with him!! Wow...
Reply:that was dum. u should talk to me
Reply:i guess it means that he is sick of girls walking all over his heart


or he is just some freik
Reply:wooah that guy is a creeper !


I say stick to boys that you know in person and that arent freaky like that...


lol


Online guys make me nervous for me and you...


thanks for answering my Q


:D
Reply:That is extremely weird....its probably a prank or joke but if you don%26#039;t know them then just delete and try to forget about it.
Reply:he wants to see up ur skirt
Reply:that is weird


but he probably wants you to use him and then forget about him. maybe it is a joke..but that is creepy
Reply:HAHA!





It means that who so ever this is, is BONKERS!!



office chair

Fitness advice please!?

I want to lose weight but everytime I try to walk on a tredmill or anywhere for that matter, my feet start hurting really bad. Does anyone else have this problem? What should I do? I%26#039;ve tried changing the shoes that I wear: from flat shoes to one%26#039;s that are made specifically for walking, i%26#039;ve tried running shoes, even those shoe inserts that are supposed to massage your feet while walking, nothing helped. I think I might be flat footed and I don%26#039;t really have the money to see a foot doctor. Please help!!!

Fitness advice please!?
Before any workout, it is very important to do some warm up activities. If the problem still persists specialist assistance is required.


There are many other physical activities like swimming or yoga which give minimum workload on the feet is also recommended. Good luck!
Reply:Try swimming. It uses more integrated movement, and will ease the foot pain, poor thing! (One of my friends was diagnosed with collapsed arches, and it is NOT fun!) She got inserts for her shoes and really, she has been SO much better. She is poor too, and had to save up for a month before she could get them.
Reply:It%26#039;s not your shoes, it%26#039;s your circulation. See a doctor about blood flow to your feet.
Reply:try lifting weights instead. if you wanted to build muscle, then you%26#039;d do high weight/low reps. but for your case, do low weight/high reps with a little break in between (maybe 1 min). this should keep your heart rate pumping. that essentially turns your weight training session into a cardio session. this should be a lot easier on your feet since you don%26#039;t need to really move them at all...except walking to differnt machines/weights.
Reply:do u streach?...thats pretty strange...maybe u have a leg problem..go check with ur doctor.
Reply:Try Yoga. Yoga evens out the muscle, strengthens the weak ones, loosens the tight ones. It should he the pain.
Reply:3 suggestions...Orthotics, streching, and put a small amount of incline on the treadmill.



dental

What's the best book to read in regards to stopping chronic foot pain?

I have gone to the doctor and have been given pain meds and a cortizone shot. Then, I tried I%26#039;ve used a cane for walking, orthotics, have worn a big boot on my foot, I%26#039;ve worn braces, I%26#039;ve tried icing I%26#039;ve tried heat pads, I%26#039;ve tried night splints, I%26#039;ve tried Z-Coil shoes, I%26#039;ve tried massages, streches, I%26#039;ve also tried acupuncture for a while, etc. Nothing has worked!!!!!

What%26#039;s the best book to read in regards to stopping chronic foot pain?
There are sites online for books on foot pain but you don%26#039;t say what your foot pain is. Do you have plantar faccitis? Heel spurs? Have you had a proper diagnosis? It looks like you%26#039;ve tried just about everything!! But let us know what your diagnosis was.



jsp

Friends episode?

whats the episode where rachel gets a free massage ticket and phoebe is really opposed to it and rips it up. rachel sticks it back together and goes and pheobe actually works there and gives her a massage. rachel sees her shania twain shoes and phoebe pretends shes swedish etc etc





thanks

Friends episode?
its was called %26quot;The One With The Fertility Test%26quot;, it was season 9 episode 21
Reply:season 9, episode 21 The One With The Fertility Test
Reply:Season 9


Episode 21


The One With the Fertility Test


May 1, 2003


Ross struggles with the conflict between his own interest in Charlie and Joey%26#039;s desire to impress her. He coaches Joey on doing and saying things that she%26#039;ll appreciate. Rachel has a gift certificate for a free massage at a big corporate massage chain; Phoebe makes her promise not to go. She goes anyway, and discovers that Phoebe works there. Monica and Chandler go in for fertility testing and bump into Janice. Later, the doctor calls and tells Chandler that he and Monica both have fertility problems.
Reply:I know which episode you are talking about, but if I were at home I would be able to tell you the name of the episode (I have the whole series on DVD). Can%26#039;t think of it right now.





If you don%26#039;t get any answers that help you, I will look tonight when I get home and tell you the name of the episode.
Reply:%26quot;The One With The Fertility Test%26quot;


Season 9, episode 21


Aired 5/1/03
Reply:oh that one, well that%26#039;s the one where....


rachel gets a free massage ticket and phoebe is really opposed to it and rips it up. rachel sticks it back together and goes and pheobe actually works there and gives her a massage. rachel sees her shania twain shoes and phoebe pretends shes swedish etc etc


hope that helped =)
Reply:I%26#039;m sorry I remembered the episode but I can%26#039;t help sorry..











good luck!



scooter

My moms best friend?

Hi i am 17 and my moms best friend has been flirting with me. she is really hott and she kows i have a foot fetish. one day i went over her house and my mom was away and took off her shoes and asked me to massage her feet and i did she really liked it. the thing is she said she wanted to do it again and im thinking she wants to have sex what should i do shes is one hot milf.

My moms best friend?
Depending on your state...that may or may not be illegal...some places 17 is fine...some places she will be charged with statutory rape.





If it%26#039;s legal, don%26#039;t miss this opportunity...older women are much more confident with their sexuality and are way more satisfying than younger women.


I%26#039;m 21, my gf is twice my age.
Reply:hey do it.im also did my moms hot friend n it was the best sex of my life im 19 shes 29.just make sure u dont gain any feelings cuz ul be hurt she does not want u serious she just want to play with u Report It

Reply:me again ..ur only 17 so she might not be that hot when u that age u see everything hot..but if she is ..hell yeah just use protection and dont tell ur mom .or anynody that could tell her. ucan tell ur best freind get back at me if u did Report It

Reply:Your 17 you could get her in a lot of trouble.YOU could send her to jail.
Reply:have sex with her
Reply:I say rock on.........
Reply:have sex with her!


she must have some nice feet


i have nice feet


want a piece of my foot? ;]
Reply:Sounds like she may be having a mid life crisis. She may be hot, but you are 17 so I%26#039;m sure you are just thinking with the wrong head. If she asked you to do that again, you should tell your mom about it, and see how she reacts. It may be the beginning of the end for their friendship, and this will help in not being the cause or be blamed for it.
Reply:Really, you should talk to your mom. Her friend will probably deny it, but stay strong. Your mom will believe you, I%26#039;m sure.
Reply:lol well it might affect her and ur mo%26#039;s friendship soo i think it%26#039;s best not 2! she may be 1 hot milf..... but she is a MOTHER!!
Reply:eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew, what if someone was saying this about your mom??
Reply:My god.. you are a baby... just cuz you have a foot fetish doesn%26#039;t mean nothing. She%26#039;s prolly too old.. and not thinking. What a dirty whore.........
Reply:If she is have sex with her on one chance in a life time do it.
Reply:Can you say statutory rape?
Reply:She definitely is NOT your mum%26#039;s best friend !!...and your mum needs to be told that....AND WHY !!....(If there is another male in your mum%26#039;s life apart from you, it will be him next)....Be a man, tell your mum the truth as her %26quot;best friend%26quot; has just hit on her boy and that...is also...illegal....
Reply:Wait a year buddy. Like the rest of us. Of course your not gonna listen cuz you dont use your correct head to make your decisions. But its wrong. Yeah. Thats all.
Reply:go for it, not every young man gets to have sex with a milf!!! do it and enjoy it, she will take good care of you. what a lucky guy!



sweating

A DIABETIC QUESTION please help!?

VERY SIMPLE. I am 19 and a type 1 diabetic, and have always had very low A1C tests and sugar levels, but i have been experiencing numbness in my big toe for about 3 months now. It isnt really possible that im losing circulation there at this young of an age, is it? could it be my shoes doing this? when i massage it i regain some feeling for awhile, but not all.

A DIABETIC QUESTION please help!?
It very well could be your shoes fitting wrong. It could also be a neuropathy, but not necessarily from diabetes. I%26#039;d see your primary doctor so he can examine it and maybe do some blood work. My money is on the shoe fitting funny though.
Reply:it probably has sumthin to to with it. i am a borderline from type 2 diabeties, and i sumtimes get numbness in my arms and fingers, and i kno its not from bad circulation. check with your doctor or endocrinologist(thats wat i go and see)
Reply:Since you are a diabetic, it is possible that you maybe having the beginnings of diabetic neuropathy.





My husband has type 2 diabetes and suffers from neuropathy. He has numbness and pain in his feet, especially at night; which keeps him awake. When he first started having neuropathy, I would massage his feet with lotion, and it would help some. Now it does not help any more. The doctor put him on Neurontin 300 MG, 3 x daily. This has helped him.





You might try a brisk walk every day, which stimulates the circulation.





I really don%26#039;t think it is your shoes, because if it was you would be having pain instead of numbness. Because you are a diabetic, you may need to ask your doctor to have you fitted with diabetic shoes. This will give you more support and could help your feet in the long run. The soft insoles have really helped my husband.





Here are some very good websites that might give you more information on diabetic neuropthy: www.ada.org, www.webmd.com, mayoclinic.com, and about.com





Good luck. I hope you find an answer to your problem. I would suggest you tell your doctor and have him make you an appointment with podiatrist. He can help you determine what is causing the numbness in your toes.
Reply:I don%26#039;t think it has to do with your diabetes. I recently attended a few educational courses and they claimed that when you lose feeling in your toes that it happens in both feet at about the same time.





I would still talk to your foot doctor though.



sunburn

Seeking your opinions on a complicated and confusing situation that I can't decide what to think of?

I%26#039;m in a rather confusing situation. There%26#039;s this guy that i fancy at ballet, and, well, whenever we%26#039;re both in the studio he looks at me quite often, and once, when I was dancing and he was watching, he caught my eye and smiled... but I wasn%26#039;t sure if the smile was directed at me, so I didn%26#039;t return the smile...





He%26#039;s got a female dance partner, and they seem rather close, even when they%26#039;re not partnering in dancing... he was helping her with softening her pointe shoes and like, using this massage thing to massage the back of her thigh..





The other day, the teacher asked him to help her with the students, and i was one of them... she asked him to lift me up, and he was sorta like, smiling, when he saw it was me... ?!? I have no idea...





I don%26#039;t know what to think... It%26#039;s all so confusing!


Am I just making things out to be bigger than they actually are?

Seeking your opinions on a complicated and confusing situation that I can%26#039;t decide what to think of?
Try talking to him! This sounds like a movie set up honestly. Trying to start a conversation with him could clue you into whether he is interested or not.
Reply:If all he has done is smiled at you, I would not take that to be an immediate indication that he likes you. He could just be smiling because he likes what he is doing or maybe he is just a happy guy…. You could try talking to him, if he seems really interested in what you are saying to him, looking at you intently and only glancing away for a half-second, light touches on the hand while talking to you, facing his chest towards you while you are talking. Also look for running his hand through his hair or licking his lips when he notices that you have entered the room. These are usually body language for his interest in you, but they can be deceptive too.





My favorite interest test was the eye-lock; stare at him from across the room and let your eyes lock with his, hold his gaze until he looks away. I%26#039;ve found that the longer they hold that gaze the more interested they are. This is also pretty useful for breaking the ice because most guys can%26#039;t resist coming to you at some point if they are even the slightest bit interested. Unless they are shy, most shy guys can%26#039;t hold a gaze; they usually get embarrassed and drop not only their gaze but their head. If they are interested they will usually glance at you while their head is down.





Be aware that it can be a sure fire notice to this guy that you are interested, if your not careful. If he%26#039;s not interested and isn%26#039;t a nice guy he could yak at his buddies about it which could be embarrassing. %26quot;That girl over there is totally staring at me, what is her problem...%26quot; If he breaks the gaze real quick and he%26#039;s not the shy type do something to cover your butt; fake a sneeze, act like your trying to fix a contact, find an eye lash, or a piece of dirt in your eye, anything to excuse your staring. I’ve even just kept staring, pretending I am day dreaming or something, you can “snap out of it” with a slow blink, then look confused for a split second, and finally move on with your day like nothing happened. Since, the majority of guys tend to make split-second decisions, they usually assume you were daydreaming and forget about the incident.





For the less confident, get a buddy to stand behind the guy being tested, if he flicked off to fast, get a big smile and start walking towards the guy holding the gaze but shifting it to your friend over his shoulder. When they are not interested they usually get spooked and don%26#039;t know what to do so they freeze up and can%26#039;t say anything. (deer in the headlights) When you walk by them to your buddy, they think %26quot;Oh it wasn%26#039;t for me, I must have imagined it%26quot; and forget it. Some of the bolder guys don%26#039;t spook if you do this and could start to say something to their friends about your coming towards him; this usually come with eyes darting about though and you can stop him before it looks bad for you. If you didn%26#039;t catch him before he started to blab at his friends, just yell to your buddy and they look like a moron instead of you. (Do NOT notice what he is saying or doing at all or it leaves doubt in him and the friends about what happened, hold the gaze with your buddy and that big smile.)





I%26#039;ve also found that the buddy technique gives you a second chance to test the guy again, if they get a little smile and their face lights up or their eyes sparkle a bit as you walk towards them they are probably interested, even if they failed the initial eye-lock test. Then if you want you can take the bold approach and initiate conversation and look for the common body signs above. Try something corny to break possible tension from the eye-lock, %26quot;Sorry, your eyes look just like my dogs/cats/fishes,%26quot; or something that would make most folks laugh (don’t use relatives or anyone your potential could eventually meet, it can get a bit embarrassing when the guy notices that his eyes look nothing like theirs.) The joke can also hide the %26quot;test%26quot; so you will be able to walk off without much embarrassment if you decide he (or you) are not interested.





I would say the eye-lock had worked for me around 80% of the time. I could even get information on guys from the eye-lock, like if they are interesting to ME or not. I was actually testing my fiancé%26#039; with the eye-lock when we started dating. I had already seen some of the other signs though. We held gaze for what seemed like hours, I learned enough from that gaze to go bold solo. I knew that he needed someone like me in his life so just I walked up and that was the end of us being single. Almost 8 years later and we have to be careful about catching each others gazes or we get lost. My Mom tells us to stop talking silently a lot. I think she%26#039;s right though; we are constantly glancing at each other and almost reading each others minds... Although I can%26#039;t honestly say how much of that is from us being so alike and together this long or how much of that is some kind of telepathy...
Reply:he%26#039;s definetly diggin you!
Reply:Steer clear of guys like those... He%26#039;s a flirt it seems... but definitely likes u!!! So u can atleast be friends for the time being and find out if he really can be the one!!!



skin rashes

Complicated.. confused.. seeking your opinions?

I%26#039;m in a rather confusing situation. There%26#039;s this guy that i fancy at ballet, and, well, whenever we%26#039;re both in the studio he looks at me quite often, and once, when I was dancing and he was watching, he caught my eye and smiled... but I wasn%26#039;t sure if the smile was directed at me, so I didn%26#039;t return the smile...





He%26#039;s got a female dance partner, and they seem rather close, even when they%26#039;re not partnering in dancing... he was helping her with softening her pointe shoes and like, using this massage thing to massage the back of her thigh..





The other day, the teacher asked him to help her with the students, and i was one of them... she asked him to lift me up, and he was sorta like, smiling, when he saw it was me... ?!? I have no idea...





I don%26#039;t know what to think... It%26#039;s all so confusing!


Am I just making things out to be bigger than they actually are?

Complicated.. confused.. seeking your opinions?
It sounds like he has an interest in you.


Especially when he%26#039;s looking at you, making eye contact, and then smiling. He%26#039;s definitely showing you that he likes you.


You need to make sure that you smile back at him.


That will let him know that you are interested in him too, and then see where it goes from there.


He may not be interested in his partner as for %26quot;liking%26quot; her, it may just be because she is his partner they have to grow some type of connection in order to be a good dancing partner.


That might be all that it is with her.





Good luck


Smile :D
Reply:You are the only person that can decide that... But you need to get up the nerve to talk to him and hopefully you can find out some kind of information...
Reply:I had something like this kind of happen to me.


The best thing to do is to just ask if their in to you.


Even if it breaks your heart.


It%26#039;s better to know then look afar.


:]


Hope it helped!
Reply:不倫相手の子供を認知するときは自分の奥さんの了承も...
Reply:Yes, you are.He%26#039;s just being nice since you%26#039;re in dance class together.


If he%26#039;s interested in you,he%26#039;ll let you know.
Reply:HE%26#039;s a flirt
Reply:OoOoOo... sounds good!! haha just talk to him... hang out during brakes and stuff... or talk to his partner and get to know her, slowly bringing up the subject *i.e. him*... it%26#039;s always good to make sure the guy is free before doing ANYTHING... lol... but if u really want him to like u... flirting is the way to anyone%26#039;s heart %26lt;3 good luck
Reply:You have a crush on a guy, if you really want to know if he feels the same way about you, just try to talk to him one day, maybe even get his number or give him yours, see where it goes from there.
Reply:he just likes to flirt.



car makes

Complicated.. confused.. seeking your opinions?

I%26#039;m in a rather confusing situation. There%26#039;s this guy that i fancy at ballet, and, well, whenever we%26#039;re both in the studio he looks at me quite often, and once, when I was dancing and he was watching, he caught my eye and smiled... but I wasn%26#039;t sure if the smile was directed at me, so I didn%26#039;t return the smile...





He%26#039;s got a female dance partner, and they seem rather close, even when they%26#039;re not partnering in dancing... he was helping her with softening her pointe shoes and like, using this massage thing to massage the back of her thigh..





The other day, the teacher asked him to help her with the students, and i was one of them... she asked him to lift me up, and he was sorta like, smiling, when he saw it was me... ?!? I have no idea...





I don%26#039;t know what to think... It%26#039;s all so confusing!


Am I just making things out to be bigger than they actually are?

Complicated.. confused.. seeking your opinions?
So far you have just caught his eye in my opinion. Give it more time and more stares and smiles and you should know for sure.
Reply:It sounds to me like he just likes to flirt. Even if he did make advances in the future, i have a feeling he would still be massaging his partner%26#039;s thighs...



flower

Complicated....confused...seek... your opinions?

I%26#039;m in a rather confusing situation. There%26#039;s this guy that i fancy at ballet, and, well, whenever we%26#039;re both in the studio he looks at me quite often, and once, when I was dancing and he was watching, he caught my eye and smiled... but I wasn%26#039;t sure if the smile was directed at me, so I didn%26#039;t return the smile...





He%26#039;s got a female dance partner, and they seem rather close, even when they%26#039;re not partnering in dancing... he was helping her with softening her pointe shoes and like, using this massage thing to massage the back of her thigh..





The other day, the teacher asked him to help her with the students, and i was one of them... she asked him to lift me up, and he was sorta like, smiling, when he saw it was me... ?!? I have no idea...





I don%26#039;t know what to think... It%26#039;s all so confusing!


Am I just making things out to be bigger than they actually are?

Complicated....confused...seek... your opinions?
You are probably cute to him, but if he hasn%26#039;t said anything to you--especially in such a relaxed situation--do you think that you might be imagining his attraction? Try talking to him and flirting and see how he reacts. Approach him and the girl and see if they%26#039;re together.





He might be one of those guys who likes to flirt with lots of girls because of the attention it gets him.
Reply:If u like him start talking the regular stuff ballet related or hi%26#039;s and bye%26#039;s and then look forward how things go from there ..and if u dont like him then %26quot;why bother%26quot;


whether he looks at u or not



car audio

Need your thoughts on a complicated and confusing situation please?

I%26#039;m in a rather confusing situation. There%26#039;s this guy that i fancy at ballet, and, well, whenever we%26#039;re both in the studio he looks at me quite often, and once, when I was dancing and he was watching, he caught my eye and smiled... but I wasn%26#039;t sure if the smile was directed at me, so I didn%26#039;t return the smile...





Also once when I was dancing, he caught me looking at him, told his female friends, and they looked at me? What was going on?





He%26#039;s got a female dance partner, and they seem rather close, even when they%26#039;re not partnering in dancing... he was helping her with softening her pointe shoes and like, using this massage thing to massage the back of her thigh..





The other day, the teacher asked him to help her with the students, and i was one of them... she asked him to lift me up, and he was sorta like, smiling, when he saw it was me... ?!? I have no idea...





I don%26#039;t know what to think... It%26#039;s all so confusing!


Am I just making things out to be bigger than they actually are?

Need your thoughts on a complicated and confusing situation please?
He kinda%26#039; sounds like a flirt.





If he massaging another girl%26#039;s legs, and other girls look at you when he sees you looking at him, he may have a relationship with the chic he is so close too, but has a crush on you at the same time.





Watch out for guys like this, they like to have thier cake and eat it too, don%26#039;t be another notch on his belt.





if you are curious ask him when you%26#039;ll are in class, not while you%26#039;ll are alone, see if there is a true connection there, or just a connection with your leotard.
Reply:You%26#039;re freaking out babe. I wonder what you%26#039;ll do if he actually asks you out.
Reply:don%26#039;t react to all this. jut wait and everything will show eventually.
Reply:I think the guy likes you but is feeling shy to tell you because is friends might laugh at him when he tells you. If you want to solve this situation you can get close to him and try to know want kind of a guy he is



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Complicated.. confused.. seeking your opinions please?

I%26#039;m in a rather confusing situation. There%26#039;s this guy that i fancy at ballet, and, well, whenever we%26#039;re both in the studio he looks at me quite often, and once, when I was dancing and he was watching, he caught my eye and smiled... but I wasn%26#039;t sure if the smile was directed at me, so I didn%26#039;t return the smile...





Also once when I was dancing, he caught me looking at him, told his female friends, and they looked at me? What was going on?





He%26#039;s got a female dance partner, and they seem rather close, even when they%26#039;re not partnering in dancing... he was helping her with softening her pointe shoes and like, using this massage thing to massage the back of her thigh..





The other day, the teacher asked him to help her with the students, and i was one of them... she asked him to lift me up, and he was sorta like, smiling, when he saw it was me... ?!? I have no idea...





I don%26#039;t know what to think... It%26#039;s all so confusing!


Am I just making things out to be bigger than they actually are?

Complicated.. confused.. seeking your opinions please?
The fact that he looks at you and smiles at you tells me that he probably likes you. Why don%26#039;t you strike up a conversation with him? Talk about something other than dance. I%26#039;m not sure how old you both are, where you live, what your interests are - but start a conversation about something going on in your community, sports, something that you both have in common. The more you talk to him, the more you%26#039;ll be able to tell whether or not he likes you. And - you can tell whether or not you like him!
Reply:He%26#039;s probably gay.
Reply:Tell him your feelings. Or ask him how he feels. Just going on smiles and glances isn%26#039;t going to go anywhere.
Reply:U like him no doubt, try looking at it in a less hopeful manner, it will clear things up
Reply:Girl be it straight . I to once had this situation and guess what we are together . Just go and talk to him . At that time he was just making u jealous or may u didn%26#039;t smile at him that can also may be the reason . One way , go and ask him and don%26#039;t get confused .


All the best.
Reply:ask him how he feels
Reply:if hes puttin eyeliner on then i think he%26#039;s gay...
Reply:Have you tried communicating with this guy. He seems to be giving you clear signals that he likes you, act on it girl!!!



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Complicated... confused.. seeking your opinions please?

I%26#039;m in a rather confusing situation. There%26#039;s this guy that i fancy at ballet, and, well, whenever we%26#039;re both in the studio he looks at me quite often, and once, when I was dancing and he was watching, he caught my eye and smiled... but I wasn%26#039;t sure if the smile was directed at me, so I didn%26#039;t return the smile...





Also once when I was dancing, he caught me looking at him, told his female friends, and they looked at me? What was going on?





He%26#039;s got a female dance partner, and they seem rather close, even when they%26#039;re not partnering in dancing... he was helping her with softening her pointe shoes and like, using this massage thing to massage the back of her thigh..





The other day, the teacher asked him to help her with the students, and i was one of them... she asked him to lift me up, and he was sorta like, smiling, when he saw it was me... ?!? I have no idea...





I don%26#039;t know what to think... It%26#039;s all so confusing!


Am I just making things out to be bigger than they actually are?

Complicated... confused.. seeking your opinions please?
maybe because you always look/observe him??,.. you are not really sure yet if he likes you, so just act normal when he%26#039;s around and try not to look at him all the time.. and ask his female friends the reason why they looked at you that time but dont show that you%26#039;re really curious to know it.. act normal. just dont mind him all the time,ok? but if he did something that really bothers you, try talking to him. just dont be too obvious that u like him.
Reply:Why not just test the waters and ask him if he wants to grab a coffee on the way home or something. It sounds to me that he probably does like you, possibly just a little shy.
Reply:Keep smiling - you never know
Reply:I bet he likes you but there is no way of knowing unless you talk to him. I would start a little flirty conversation, see how he reacts. If he likes it and flirts back, talk to him about it and good luck!
Reply:I think he knows you like him,


%26amp; thinks its cute probably.


Just try talking to him %26amp; becoming


his friends %26amp; see what happens!


What do you have to lose? :]


Good luck!
Reply:probably



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Have no idea what to think.... your opinions on situation please?

I%26#039;m in a rather confusing situation. There%26#039;s this guy that i fancy at ballet, and, well, whenever we%26#039;re both in the studio he looks at me quite often, and once, when I was dancing and he was watching, he caught my eye and smiled... but I wasn%26#039;t sure if the smile was directed at me, so I didn%26#039;t return the smile...





He%26#039;s got a female dance partner, and they seem rather close, even when they%26#039;re not partnering in dancing... he was helping her with softening her pointe shoes and like, using this massage thing to massage the back of her thigh..





The other day, the teacher asked him to help her with the students, and i was one of them... she asked him to lift me up, and he was sorta like, smiling, when he saw it was me... ?!? I have no idea...





I don%26#039;t know what to think... It%26#039;s all so confusing!


Am I just making things out to be bigger than they actually are?

Have no idea what to think.... your opinions on situation please?
I wouldn%26#039;t jump to any ideas. For one reason if he is not into you, you will then be uneasy around him. Second, if that girl is his girlfriend then she might get crazy. So just wait things out and see what happens, smile back...it won%26#039;t hurt and it will let him know without jumping on him that you think he%26#039;s cute!
Reply:Any ballet dancer if male I have knowing are mostly gay.



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What does this mean? Opinions please?

I%26#039;m in a rather confusing situation. There%26#039;s this guy that i fancy at ballet, and, well, whenever we%26#039;re both in the studio he looks at me quite often, and once, when I was dancing and he was watching, he caught my eye and smiled... but I wasn%26#039;t sure if the smile was directed at me, so I didn%26#039;t return the smile...





He%26#039;s got a female dance partner, and they seem rather close, even when they%26#039;re not partnering in dancing... he was helping her with softening her pointe shoes and like, using this massage thing to massage the back of her thigh..





The other day, the teacher asked him to help her with the students, and i was one of them... she asked him to lift me up, and he was sorta like, smiling, when he saw it was me... ?!? I have no idea...





I don%26#039;t know what to think... It%26#039;s all so confusing!


Am I just making things out to be bigger than they actually are?

What does this mean? Opinions please?
How about just talking with the guy? You can speculate all day long but you won%26#039;t know a thing until you actually talk with him. It doesn%26#039;t have to be a life altering conversation nor do you have to put the fatal %26quot;Do you like me?%26quot; question to him. Just start a conversation about dance, the music, hobbies, whatever and take that where it leads. You%26#039;ll find out soon enough if he wants to continue with additional conversations. If he does, there is interest, if not, well, you know.
Reply:I know the feeling, the fear of rejection; it is very normal. It took me a long time to accept that; we all want to be accepted. When the opportunity comes, smile and say %26quot;Hi%26quot;, nothing more. You can do this! Report It

Reply:try hanging out with a bunch of people from dance.. including him.. outside of dance.. se how he acts then and make a judgement based on that.. or u could just tell him how you feel and see how he reacts
Reply:Chances are he liked you and was seeing how you would respond by smiling at you that time. When you did not return the smile you sent a message that you were not interested. So he just let it drop and is now flirting with another girl and getting close to her. So he did I think liked you, but you seemed to miss the best opportunity when you didn%26#039;t smile back. This is why I say girls should talk to guys if they like them or want to get to know them. Things can get screwed up so easily.
Reply:don%26#039;t get your hopes up too fast! okay...you just gotta wait for a while...he does seem close to his partner...but if he was smiling at you....he might be smiling at he person behind you!





You just gotta wait...watch for clues to see who he likes...find out if he smile at everyone! See what he does... Hope i could help!
Reply:try talking to him and you will see where he is coming from.
Reply:It seems like he likes you, so smile back and be a little bit flirty, but not desperate. See where that goes.
Reply:no sweety. let life live
Reply:Well.He might like you.Watch what he does to other girls.If he does it to the other girls, then he might now like you.But if its mainly you, then he does like you.Though, you really didnt ask a question but this is what i think you were asking.
Reply:It sounds right now like he just a friendly person. You could try flirting a bit, his response will give you some clues as to whether or not that is true.



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Complicated... confused... seeking your opinions..?

I%26#039;m in a rather confusing situation. There%26#039;s this guy that i fancy at ballet, and, well, whenever we%26#039;re both in the studio he looks at me quite often, and once, when I was dancing and he was watching, he caught my eye and smiled... but I wasn%26#039;t sure if the smile was directed at me, so I didn%26#039;t return the smile...





He%26#039;s got a female dance partner, and they seem rather close, even when they%26#039;re not partnering in dancing... he was helping her with softening her pointe shoes and like, using this massage thing to massage the back of her thigh..





The other day, the teacher asked him to help her with the students, and i was one of them... she asked him to lift me up, and he was sorta like, smiling, when he saw it was me... ?!? I have no idea...





I don%26#039;t know what to think... It%26#039;s all so confusing!


Am I just making things out to be bigger than they actually are?

Complicated... confused... seeking your opinions..?
You need to talk to him outside of class and casually find out if he%26#039;s dating the other girl. Say something like, %26quot;How long have you and so and so been dating%26quot; If he says he isn%26#039;t then say, %26quot;Oh, are you two just friends?%26quot; If he says yes, then talk some more about nonsense like the weather and ballet and stuff and then towards the end of the conversation, give him your phone number and tell him to call you because you would like to get together with him for lunch or something.
Reply:Hey girl, I guess your very attracted to this guy/gay. Maybe he%26#039;s looking at you because he is either jealous of your clothes, your body or your looks or he likes you too. What you feel might be real.Just be more attentive to the lessons and not to the guy alone okay? If he%26#039;s interested in you, he%26#039;s gonna be the the one who%26#039;s gonna ask you out. Don%26#039;t be too aggressive.
Reply:if i were you, i%26#039;d leave things as it is and not think anything first. it can be very disappointing if the opposite happens you know. and us girls, we%26#039;re just too sensitive to take certain things! but what i can see is that he might have taken a fancy to you. but play cool. that way you%26#039;ll attract him more.
Reply:u tell me.. what do YOU think is right??and uh he massaged his partner%26#039;s thigh?? uhh... interesting.. but of course, is he older? if so... GO FOR HIM!!!
Reply:Well one day ask him to help you do something and then strike up a conversation, sometime we have to act stupid in order to make them realize!
Reply:hey if you fancy him then tell him and see what his responds is . He will either give u the right answer ur looking for or tell u the truth and that he is seeing some one now. It can%26#039;t get any worst than that right so confront him and go from there. You could start by saying that YOU noticed him looking and smiling at u and that will start the conversation off ok.



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My girlfriend won't let me give her foot massages. Why not?

When she comes home after work or whatever I love to take her shoes off and give her a massage. I guess I%26#039;m into feet or whatever and she has really nice feet. Anyway she almost always says no. She says I can do it %26quot;later%26quot; after she has a shower etc. But it%26#039;s more fun to do it when I know her feet are tired and sore b/c she wears heels at work almost every day in the office. How can I get her to say yes?? And WHY would a girl turn this down I have heard other women talking about how they WISH their guys would do it.

My girlfriend won%26#039;t let me give her foot massages. Why not?
maybe she doesnt like her feet being touched or maube she%26#039;s very ticklish on her feet. or maybe she doesnt want u to smell her feet if they%26#039;ve been sweating after a long day. i know that sounds gross but its true.
Reply:Chuck if I were your girl I would let you massage my feet till the cows come home..........


But to answer your question, some girls are not really into it., after work they prefer to chill or do things. Everyone is different.
Reply:im a girl and i can relate to her i really dont like for guys to touch my feet or anyone to touch my feet.......some girls arent into guys touchin their feet!
Reply:maybe her feet smell bad
Reply:She has ugly toenails.
Reply:probably because she is embarrassed about her feet. If she doesn%26#039;t want one, don%26#039;t force her to take one.
Reply:She doesn%26#039;t like people touching her feet. Maybe she%26#039;s ticklish or maybe she just doesn%26#039;t like it.
Reply:she just wants to get them clean. she also might like to get a shower to get all the work grime off her body. as for me i would let you rub my feet at any time. i have no oder on my feet.
Reply:I HATE my feet rubbed in any way ...And there is absolutely nothing wrong with my feet..I just dont like it...But I would think she would just tell you that and not beat around the bush...I tell my bf straight out that i hate it and i let him do something else for me......There has got to be something she is insecure about on her feet...but i would just find something else to rub :D



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Girls: Does this sounds good?

As a plan... let%26#039;s say my girlfriend comes home and (she will likely be there first) waits for me... she is stressed and wants a massage... so she takes her shoes off, lies down on her stomach, and gets a massage... she would then be relaxed for the rest of the day (or evening, as it is), right?

Girls: Does this sounds good?
YES YES YES YES!!!!!!!
Reply:hellz yes. I think your girlfriend is lucky
Reply:sounds good...way to be supportive!! : )
Reply:hey you..sounds good to me.but dont forget the cooking!.she will be hungry after the..am i allowed to say the word here?


so sweet of you..
Reply:depends on how her day went?


but i%26#039;m sure that make her feel great!


guy%26#039;s who are willing to help there girl out are great! :p


keep being one of those guys :]



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What could cause swollen feet, that take time to go back to normal?

Ok, a few months ago my feet and ankles swelled up (especially the left), and at the suggestion of my massage therapist I drank more water, did some stretches, iced and massaged my feet,wore better shoes, walked more, and it went down. I thought it was related to some plantar faschitis I was having problems with.





However over this weekend both of my feet and ankles swelled up. They ballooned. they felt like sausages. At one point my right hand did it too but just for a short time. They are a little better now, I put them up at every chance I got, drank a lot of water, cut out salt some, walked some, wore the shoes that compress the squishyness out of my feet.





I don%26#039;t feel sick. I don%26#039;t have blood pressure problems to the best of my knowledge. I do retain water before my period but never this bad.





What could this be and is this an emergency?

What could cause swollen feet, that take time to go back to normal?
Gout,look it up and see if you find anything like your symtoms.
Reply:Problems with your heart and or blood vessels/arteries can also cause the symptoms you describe.
Reply:check your blood sugar. that might be a sign of diabetes



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First 10 people to answer get 10 points?

Do you think a 7th grade hot girl would freak out if someone told her that %26quot;Hey it looks like those shoes hurt need a massage.

First 10 people to answer get 10 points?
depends on how old the asker was.
Reply:ya
Reply:i think they%26#039;d giggle at you and think your weird... try a smoother line dude. AND they%26#039;d tell all their friends... so i hope your ready for the gossip/rumours to start flying about you.
Reply:No they would either laugh or tell you to go away.
Reply:Yes


Yes


Yes
Reply:No i think they would laugh
Reply:no i think that they would be like.. sure baby !
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Reply:no don%26#039;t freak out but say %26quot;i know they are... but i don%26#039;t need them massaged, thank you!%26quot;





he probably won%26#039;t no what to say haha i love it





unfortunately i could never go up to a HOT girl and spring up some pick-up YES pick-up line on anyone let alone a HOT girl because i am myself NOT hot
Reply:I think it depends on who is saying that. If some 43-year-old man walks up to a girl and says that, then that would just be really creepy.
Reply:they would laugh tt really funny lol
Reply:no i think she would like the attention.
Reply:i think they would laugh and think ur gay
Reply:depends how well you know the 7th grader....but if you didnt know her well then yes
Reply:No but probably think that%26#039;s a joke.



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First 10 people to answer 10 points?

Do you think a hot 7th grade girl would freak out if my friend who is in 7th grade and knew her preety well asked%26quot;Hey it looks like those shoes hurt need a massage. If not what do you think she would say. Answer without a stupid answer please.

First 10 people to answer 10 points?
Yes thats stupid
Reply:oh thanks


i really needed it
Reply:she%26#039;ll probably just be like %26quot;um, okay%26quot; look at him funny, and walk away. its kinda weird.


he could try just talking with her, and subtly flirting
Reply:can i tea bag you? say that hahahah
Reply:well is your friend a boy?


If he is she would probably feel werid because that is a werid question to ask someone.


kinda





She would probably not say yes though if that is what you are looking for.
Reply:o_o
Reply:she may freak out or she may take her shoes off and say rub away but beware of smelly girl feet
Reply:since she knows him well she will probably take it as a joke if not just say no and won der if it was a joke who asks that? pfffff
Reply:ewww and how would u give me 10 pts?
Reply:Uhm..yes. She would freak. even if the shoes were un-comfy, girls generally dont like random ppl maessing with their feet, which are expensive to have taken care of in saps, salons, and whatnot- thnkuvrymch.


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except i bet she%26#039;d like it if he was like, those shoes look painful, would like a bar of choclate to make it feel better? an dthen he gives her a new hershey bar. Unless shes overwieght, or abnormally skinny, then thatd make her feel bad!





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o, plus, some girls would love a foot massage but not in the middle of school, obviously. Also, wat if she has a foot problem- like bunyans or very smellly feet. Thatd be soooo embarrising for her!
Reply:That is a cheesy question but if it were tweaked a little it would be good
Reply:That sounds creepy.





I would recommend your friend not to make her want to move schools from fear.
Reply:well it matters what her opinion is but i wouldnt freak out
Reply:i guess if he knew her well then she would think its a joke and laugh.
Reply:she might think its a little weirddd but ur friend should just go for it
Reply:it would kinda freak me out if someone wanted to massage my feet, hah but you can try that. if you want to get her attention, i suggest trying a different line like offering to carry her books or something
Reply:yeah thats kind of creepy lol but idk people think difrently
Reply:Stay away from 7th grade girls....pervert
Reply:that sounds like a corny line, try putting your hands on her shoulders and start massaging ,girls like back massages,and forget the lines,action speaks louder then words.
Reply:If he knows her pretty well, why would he something odd like that? It%26#039;s not like she would be offended or anything. Maybe just a little weirded out. Unless she knew you were in a joking manner and thats all it meant.
Reply:Freak out ....nahh , she thinks all the the boys want her anyway...the foot massage offer is nice...but she would know what you really want to massage.





lets see how hot she really is



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Ladies - What Would You Do?

If you were sitting on the couch with your boyfriend, and he randomly grabbed your feet, slipped off your shoes and started to massage your feet?

Ladies - What Would You Do?
i would be in heaven it would be foreplay for later in the night also
Reply:Well, I personally hate feet and mine are extremely ticklish so I%26#039;d probably kick him off me and scream. lol
Reply:I would feel awkward.


And probably start laughing because I would get tickle-ish.
Reply:I%26#039;d start to giggle like a mad woman. I%26#039;m very ticklish, but if i wasn%26#039;t i would love it. a man who is willing to massage your feet without being asked to, OMG I%26#039;d be in heaven. I love feet but my bf doesn%26#039;t like having them be touched. I%26#039;d be grateful.
Reply:Lay back and enjoy it. If you don%26#039;t like it, send him to my place, and I will appreciate the foot rub.
Reply:i would probably be like what are you doing haha


and laugh
Reply:Enjoy the massage.
Reply:I%26#039;d let him massage my feet, I mean b/c he obviously wants to. I%26#039;d also be giggling like mad b/c I%26#039;m really ticklish. But hey whatever floats his boat.
Reply:id feel alkward at first but that would put a huge smile on my face!
Reply:This is the second or third question you have asked about feet, is there more to this whole bf, gf, feet thing? And I wud be a little startled by this act of massaging but if he was good, I wud get into it
Reply:I%26#039;d pray to god that my feet do not stink (which they do)!
Reply:I think I giggling non stop.



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How do I make my husband feel welcome when he comes home from work?

have dinner ready?


dress sexy?


pour him a drink?


take off his shoes?


give him a massage?


or just leave him alone? lol!!





i have no idea!!!


any help would be much appreciated!! especially from guys (: we%26#039;re both in our early 20%26#039;s and i dont usually make an effort but he%26#039;s been stressed out at work lately





thank u!!!!!!!!!! (:

How do I make my husband feel welcome when he comes home from work?
cater to him, make a nice dinner take off his shoes . get him ready a bubble bath and when hes done make sure dinner is ready. then get some rest and give him a BJ ..guys liek it
Reply:answer the door naked as he walks in my husband loves that
Reply:Try them all.......I know most men want to have a minute to unwind first. I play it by ear on a daily basis because he%26#039;s sometimes stressed out from work. Why don%26#039;t you ask him what he prefers, and then take it from there. God Bless!
Reply:well it would help to ask him wat he wants out of the relation ship and mabey it would help a lot and also swicth it up a bit men like that
Reply:Man goes out and works hard for his family...when he walks in the door there should be a light on for him in his little castle...the light should be the reason he does what he does.....his family.....just be the person he married and go with the flow.be there for him.....you sound caring...stay that way......good luck
Reply:A friendly greeting and a hug/kiss for starters.





The rest is up to you
Reply:Just a %26quot;Hey Baby%26quot; a smile and a little smooch


would be a good start. It aill be awkard at first but a good healthy habit to start!
Reply:the best way to cure stress is usually sex.... for girls or guys... so dress sexy and hopefully he%26#039;s smart enough to get the idea... but isnt he suppose to be the one suprising u.... guys are so lazy nowadays.... cant even find time to stop somewhere and buy some roses every now and then...
Reply:actually all of the above would make his day. i always give my husband at least 30 mins to chill after he comes home. i dont bother him, and i dont let the kids bother him
Reply:Listen to what he has to say about his day for awhile before you start talking about your day. If he is stressed out at work, he doesn%26#039;t want to come home to a nagging, complaining wife. If he doesn%26#039;t want to talk, ask if he wants to be left alone (as in the room alone) or just doesn%26#039;t want to talk yet. When he is ready, he will talk.


It has been said marriage is 50/50, well it isn%26#039;t, it is 100/100. Each has to give 100% to make it work. Sometimes ladies it seems like our 100% is larger, but to them, it looks like theirs is more. Try to see things from the other side, be patient and ask every now and then if you could do something different to help him un-stress.


On the other side, if you keep him guessing as to what you will be doing when he comes home. Well who knows where it could go from there? One day have a %26quot; nice%26quot; outfit on, then on another day one that isn%26#039;t so nice. Just make sure he isn%26#039;t bringing anyone home on the not so nice days. Make it so he never knows which side of his wife he will be coming home to and soon he will be rushing home to see and without to much stress hanging on.


Use your imagination, you know him and what he likes. Use that for your ammunition. After 32 years of marriage, we still aren%26#039;t bored. (snicker snicker).


Good luck
Reply:After a long day of hard work we usually want to eat, crap, shower, sex, and sleep. Maybe a lil sportscenter somewhere in between. Remember we%26#039;re tired so maybe you can be on top during the sex or just a nice BJ and some peace and quiet.





If he%26#039;s a good man he%26#039;ll return the love one hundred fold.
Reply:only start something you%26#039;re willing to finish... all of the above... one at a time or in combination would work for me... If he%26#039;s the sole bread winner... then by all means... all he really needs is assurance that the stress he%26#039;s under is appreciated... because after all it%26#039;s for you that he%26#039;s chosen to be in his stressful situation.





So anything you can do... even just telling him %26quot;you love and appreciate the effort he puts in to create and maintain your home%26quot;





I%26#039;ll bet you haven%26#039;t been married for more than 2 years... *sigh* a young marriage is soooo filled with desire...





In any case your on the right track...
Reply:I%26#039;m 23 and is not easy but most of the stuff you wrote is what we have to do give him a kiss sit him down take his shoes off before he comes have his cloths ready if he likes to eat first serve him food or let him first take a shower while you massage his arms and sit down with him ask him how did he do that day of work and let him know how you feel for him and what ever comes after that will let you know if it worked ah and something sexy on and good a good perfume his favorite and his favorite food
Reply:If he%26#039;s stressed out,give him some time to himself. Don%26#039;t ignore him just let him wind down a bit. And yes,all the above would be nice later. Good Wife you are.Love ya!
Reply:give him a big nice smooch thats what i wold do
Reply:all of them
Reply:ok so he%26#039;s stressed from work;do all of the above and if none of it works then just try talking to him about work also,and sometimes it would be nice to make an effort that would calm things down a bit you have to make the first move so he can know he%26#039;s coming home to something (good)
Reply:Wow...you are a very thoughtful woman.....


1st. Do NOT ask him a lot of questions. After a tough day we cavemen don%26#039;t feel like talking. If a question requires an answer longer than one word then don%26#039;t ask it. Too many questions will INCREASE his stress level. Let him enjoy some silence.


2nd. Massage his ego a bit. Give him a hug and tell him how much you appreciate his hard work. Ask him if he would like a drink. Here is a SECRET. If a woman knows how to motivate a man, that man will DO ANYTHING for her. Look at the Taj Majal. A man built that for his wife because he wanted to impress her.


3rd. Have him sit down, take off his shoes, rub his shoulders and tell how in a fun way what a great man he is. He will know you are playing him but he will love it (assuming he is a normal man). After you feel him PHYSICALLY relax, then say what can do for you to make you feel more comfortable? Then listen and do it.





As for dressy sexy, this is fun for us guys but doing the stuff I recommended is more powerful. Good luck.



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